Hi there,
Today is day 2 of the 20 lessons I’ve learnt at the age of 20 😊. I hope you will enjoy this one, grab a cup of tea and enjoy 😊.
Validation,
it’s such a weird concept if you think about it. It’s wanting someone to say “yes” to something they don’t have anything to do with. Validation is the amount of likes on a post or the praise you get when you do something right. So today, I want to bring you guys on a journey of how I redefined validation and stopped social anxiety, wanting to be accepted.
After my life was turned upside down, the only voice I could hear was come to me. I got you. I can help you succeed. Success is not getting millions of followers, it’s not that everyone is proud of you. I don’t want you to stress over things for other people. I want you to live your life to the full, I want you to enjoy what you’re doing!
My dear, you are doing great! I don’t want you to worry about how you’re going to make it, trust me. Trust that I will provide! Enjoy the ride! All you need is me. You might not see it all now but know that I won’t let you fail! I only have great plans! I promise I won’t let you down, just trust me. Let’s go for a ride together, I want to show you something beautiful.
As I went on the ride, I realised that many were not on board with that choice, but even then His support and His love for me kept me going! I saw that He would keep all His promises and His comfort was all around me and after embracing that.
I realised that I didn’t need to fight for peopl’s support or try to convince them, if I just continued to believe, the right people will support you!
Embracing that His validation is enough, really helped me overcome social anxiety!
I hope this post helped you guys out! If you have a question, don’t hesitate to leave a comment or send a message!
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Have a blessed week!
Big love,
Joy
